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In a Lavender Field
Its Relational Therapy for Relationships founded in Collingwood Ontario offering virtual relational therapy Ontario - Wide

In our therapeutic approach, therapy is seen as a way to connect and come together as a commitment and a promise to yourself, your relationships, and your journey. 
Meet Samm, a therapist who believes in your journey
Support for Individuals, Couples, Families and Relational Systems. Navigating Life’s Difficult Moments 
You don’t have to face grief, relationship challenges, life transitions, or disconnection alone.

Hi, I'm Samantha also known as Samm!
Together the therapy experience is deeply connective and collaborative, where supporting you in being seen is at the heart of what this foundation is built on.

A practice created built from the belief that healing happens through connection and intention, where together, we create paths where understanding, restoration, and meaningful change are possible.
Approach to Therapy

I believe therapy is most meaningful when it feels collaborative, compassionate, and grounded in genuine connection. My approach is rooted in both Narrative Therapy and Emotionally Focused Therapy, which invites us to explore the stories you carry about yourself, your relationships, and your life experiences. While also attending to the patterns, the cycles, and the emotional experiences that live within experience. Together, we create space to gently examine areas of disconnection, pain, conflict, and "stuck points," while building an understanding for how these areas have shaped your life, and discovering new possibilities for meaning, healing, and growth.

Rather than focusing on “fixing” problems, I see therapy as a process of helping you reconnect with your strengths, values, and the parts of your story that may have been overshadowed by pain, loss, or disconnection.

With curiosity and reflection, we work together to uncover the resources and wisdom that already exist within you and within relationships.

 

While Narrative Therapy and Emotionally Focused Therapy provides the foundation for my work, I also recognize that each person’s journey is unique. Supporting the therapeutic process, I may at times integrate drawing from other evidence-based approaches such as Internal Family Systems, Somatic Experiencing, and humanistic approaches. These models allow us to explore emotional patterns, relational dynamics, and the ways our bodies hold and respond to our experiences and the world around us.

Its Relational 

 
Therapy for Relationships

Its Relational Therapy for Relationships offers a deeply supportive and model specific or integrative counselling experience. Drawing from evidence-based approaches including Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), Narrative Therapy, and Somatic Experiencing.

Counselling for Non-Traditional Relational Systems

Do you ever feel like you don’t quite fit the mold, or that you’re being asked to define yourself before you’ve even had space to just be? You’re not alone in that experience. What if those feelings aren’t just about you as an individual, but about the relationships and systems you’re part of? In this therapy space, we slow things down. Together, we gently explore the pressures, expectations, and stories shaping your sense of self both internally and within your relationships. This work is especially for people in relationships that don’t follow traditional couple or family structures. Whether you’re navigating chosen family, nontraditional partnerships, or complex relational dynamics, you’ll find a space here that honours your experience without judgment. We focus on real, everyday challenges like communication, intimacy, conflict, trust, and boundaries helping you build more connected, authentic, and fulfilling relationships. You don’t need to have it all figured out. You just need a place to start.

Non Traditional Relational Systems Therapy
Couples Therapy
Counselling for Couples

Do you feel like something in your relationship isn’t working the way it used to or the way you hoped it would? Are you... Arguing more and resolving less. Struggling to communicate without it turning into conflict or shutdown. Feeling disconnected, distant, or lonely even when you’re together. Navigating trust issues, resentment, or past hurts. Questioning your future, or grieving how things used to feel. Wondering if you need to change just to make the relationship “work”... If any of this resonates, you’re not alone and it doesn’t mean your relationship is broken. What if, instead of something being “wrong,” your relationship is trying to get your attention? Trying to tell you something about your needs, your patterns, and the way you connect with each other? In couples therapy, we create a space to slow things down and truly hear one another often in ways that haven’t felt possible before. Together, we work to Improve communication so both partners feel understood and respected. Rebuild emotional and physical intimacy. Repair trust and process past wounds. Break out of repeating conflict cycles. Strengthen connection, safety, and partnership. This is a space to turn toward each other not away. To get curious instead of stuck. To begin rewriting the story of your relationship with more intention, care, and clarity. You don’t have to have all the answers to begin. You just have to be willing to show up together.

Counselling for Families

Is your family feeling more tense, distant, or disconnected than it used to? Maybe you're... Dealing with constant conflict or communication breakdowns. Feeling misunderstood, overlooked, or unappreciated. Navigating parenting challenges or differences in parenting styles. Experiencing stress around life transitions. Struggling with boundaries, roles, or unresolved past hurts. Wanting things to feel calmer, closer, and more supportive but not sure how to get there... If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Many families reach a point where old patterns stop working, and everyone feels stuck. What if these challenges aren’t just problems but signals? Ways your family system is trying to express unmet needs, stress, or disconnection? Family therapy offers a space to slow things down and truly hear one another. Together, we strive to Improve communication so each person feels seen, heard, and respected. Work through conflict in a way that feels safer and more constructive. Explore family roles, patterns, and dynamics with curiosity not blame. Strengthen connection, understanding, and emotional support. Create space for each person’s voice, even when perspectives differ. This is a space where difficult conversations are not avoided but supported. Where healing can begin through understanding, intention, and care. Your family doesn’t have to stay stuck in the same patterns. Change is possible and it can start with one conversation.

Family Therapy
Individual Therapy (Relational Lens)
Individual Counselling (Relational Lens)

Do you ever feel like you’re the problem or like you’re the one who needs to be “fixed”? Are you... Stuck in self-doubt, overthinking, or harsh self-criticism. Trying to live up to expectations that don’t feel like you. Feeling lost in your identity or unsure of your place in the world. Repeating patterns in relationships that leave you feeling frustrated or hurt. Carrying the weight of past experiences that still impact you today. Wanting to understand yourself more deeply, but not knowing where to begin... If this resonates, you’re not alone and you’re not broken. What if your experiences make more sense when we look beyond just you as an individual? What if the way you feel is connected to the relationships, systems, and environments you’ve been part of? In individual therapy through a relational lens, we shift away from “fixing” you and toward understanding you within the context of your life. Together, we will Explore how your relationships and environments have shaped your story. Identify patterns that may be keeping you stuck. Build self-awareness, self-compassion, and clarity about who you are. Navigate identity, boundaries, and expectations with intention. Support you in creating more aligned, authentic ways of relating to yourself and others. This is a collaborative space where your experiences are met with curiosity, not judgment. A place to make sense of your story in a way that feels empowering, meaningful, and true to you. You don’t have to change who you are to begin. You just need a space where you can start to understand yourself differently.

Virtual Relational Therapy
4 - 115 First St.,
​Collingwood ON L9Y 4W3

Virtual Counselling Ontario Wide

All therapy sessions are by appointment only


Tel: (705) 606 6030
Email: info@itsrelationaltherapy.co

Its Relational Therapy for Relationships
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